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惩罚宝宝十个科学方法,太好了
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2015-7-17 21:58
标题:
惩罚宝宝十个科学方法,太好了
<p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">惩罚宝宝十个科学方法</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 惩罚宝宝,是每个父母培养孩子、纠正孩子错误的方式之一。俗话说得好,没有规矩不成方圆,孩子犯错误,自然需要父母的教育和惩罚。但惩罚宝宝也要讲求科学方式,一旦惩罚不当,不但对宝宝的行为起不到规范作用,更可能使宝宝的行为逆向发展。如何在家庭教育中有效惩罚宝宝,下面十个方法科学又智慧。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1、规劝</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:与同伴吵架、抢夺玩具…<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/> </p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:先放下手边的工作,并走到孩子身旁,让孩子知道你正在注意和关注;然后询问孩子争执、吵架的原因,并耐心听完孩子的想法;灌输孩子打人、抢夺是不正确的行为和观念,并要求孩子学习说“请、谢谢、对不起”。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:勿以很大声音去压住或威胁孩子;勿直接将孩子拉开,然后大声训斥孩子不是;言语间避免伤孩子的自尊心。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 2、打手心</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:打架、乱丢东西……<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:用报纸制作一纸棒,外观可包上一层装纸;赋予它一个名称,如警惕棒、陈家棒……;放在固定的地方作为警惕。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:在心情好的时候制作,可与孩子一起讨论制作警惕棒的原因;处罚孩子时,先让他说出自己错在什么地方;提醒处罚的原因;注意安全问题,打的部位以手心、屁股为主,其他部位则应避免。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">3、罚坐</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:吵闹不休、吵架……<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:在处罚区上摆上软垫或一张椅子,可取个名字;准备闹钟或时钟,计时处罚时间。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:处罚地点不正对大门、不在太明显地方;限制处罚时间,或让孩子讲处罚多久的时间;处罚完后,让孩子说出今天被处罚的原因。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 4、帮忙做家务</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:乱画,乱丢东西、玩具……<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:准备一条抹布、扫把、盆子等清洁用具,让孩子学习清理和养成整洁的习惯。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:父母应随时注意孩子的安全;较小的幼儿可由父母一起带领做家事;训练孩子养成物归原处的习惯;询问孩子在帮忙家事时学习到什么。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">5、画画</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:喜欢骂人、抓人、踢人、咬人等小动作。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:依家庭的情况,在固定处摆放一张小桌子(此处罚桌最好不要是平常使用到的书桌、餐桌、客桌等,以免孩子日后使用到这些桌子时,会产生害怕、恐惧的心理);准备一本画册及颜色不同的画笔,让孩子画出、写出心中的想法。<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:当孩子有受伤时,先处理受伤部位再处罚;让孩子将发生的时间和做错的事情画下来;大人先控制自己的情绪,可从孩子的画中了解到,孩子犯错的心理想法;此为艺术治疗法,较不会伤害到孩子自尊心。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">6、罚站</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:故意从高处往下跳,车上跑跑跳跳。<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:在家中规划一个处罚区,可取个名字,地点以靠墙壁、不正对大门为主;地上铺上软垫;准备一个时钟或闹钟,计时孩子处罚的时间。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:处罚地点不宜太明显或正对大门,以免伤及孩子自尊;与孩子讲处罚时间不宜太久,否则会造成孩子更顽皮的反效果;视孩子的高度来决定垫子高度;处罚完后,询问孩子被处罚原因,让孩子自己知道做错的原因。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7、看书、写字</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:暴力倾向、说谎、顺手牵羊……<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:选择固定处罚区铺上软垫或摆放小桌子;在处罚区里面放铅笔、画纸、彩色笔、故事书、色纸……;让孩子自己先写字或看书,化解孩子愤怒的情绪。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:当不能马上放下的工作时,可先叫孩子到处罚区去反省;别怒斥孩子的不是,与孩子先隔离,缓和彼此的情绪;等情绪平复后,询问孩子犯错的动机。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">8、没收心爱的东西</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:吵闹不休、乱丢东西、不收玩具……<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:将孩子乱丢的物品予以没收,作为惩罚。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:先放下手边的工作,并走到孩子身旁,让孩子知道妈妈正在注意和关注;告诉孩子将乱丢的物品收好、停止吵闹,否则将有所处罚;让孩子说出为什么犯错,和妈妈生气的原因。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">9、排豆子</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:针对耐心不足,乱丢东西等情况。<br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:准备一个盒子、盘子,里面有红色、绿色等彩色的珠,几个塑料罐子;让孩子在处罚桌上,将各种颜色的珠,摆放在正确位置。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:如果孩子本身很叛逆,视情况针对孩子修改来处理,可先罚站、罚坐再做处罚;此目的在训练孩子养成物归原处的习惯;可训练手眼协调、分辨能力;完成后,让孩子知道被处罚的原因。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 10、禁止某些权利、要求</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 案例:不爱刷牙、挑食、乱丢东西……</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/> </p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 方式:将孩子爱吃、爱玩的东西暂时禁止碰触,作为惩罚。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 建议:不以威胁、愤怒的态度大声对孩子说;让孩子知道禁止这些权利的原因,当孩子日后表现佳时,恢复其权利。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">实施惩罚时的注意事项:</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">关键:把握原则控制情绪</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 此外,专家也表示,孩子成长过程当中,难免都会犯错,无论是无心的或是故意的,当父母在处罚孩子时,还需注意一些事情,以免造成不良的后遗症。</p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">1、安全问题,处罚物品的材质避免过于坚硬;</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 2、控制自己的情绪反应;</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 3、处罚的地点应选择不明显、不正对大门地方,以免伤到孩子自尊心;</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 4、注意措词、语气,勿以威胁、恐吓的话语对孩子说;</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 5、处罚内容需彻底执行,不宽容、妥协;</strong></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></p><p></p><p style="padding: 0px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; min-height: 1em; font-size: 16px; line-height: 25px; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; max-width: 100%; white-space: pre-wrap; color: rgb(62, 62, 62); clear: both; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"> 6、处罚后,安抚孩子,让他知道父母对他的关心和关爱。</strong></p><p><br/></p>
作者:
心之水选择
时间:
2015-7-18 04:46
<p>谢谢分享,刚开始我觉得罚站很有效,后来宝贝大一点了,没有效果了,唉,打手心,现在也皮了,她甚至看见你生气了,就说给你打一下手心吧,</p>
作者:
毒蛇花花
时间:
2015-7-18 05:38
<p>谢谢分享</p>
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lian4227
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2015-7-24 22:01
楼主码这么多字居然?
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2015-7-24 22:44
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2015-7-24 23:05
我的沙发啊……呜呜
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net350
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